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From black-tie functions to outdoor events.

Spoiler alert: embracing your personal style is the first step to loving your look.

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DION LAMAR MILLS FOR BYRDIE

Meet the Experts

Black Tie

According to Maguire, black tie is all about formal wear.

“Specifically, gowns and tuxedos,” Maguire says.

“In a traditional sense, black-tie has meant you must wear something black.

Love says, “This event is typically an evening wedding or gala where you should dress to impress.

Floor-length hemlines, luxurious fabrics, and special touches like lace and beading are all perfect options.”

With simpler formal dresses, Maguire suggests going all-out with bold shoes or a bag.

“This dress code is the most formal,” she explains.

“This is a world-class event where you will see and be seen.

Picture yourself on the red carpet and get ready for your close-up.”

Formal Or Black-Tie Optional

To tie, or not to tie?

That is the question with formal and black-tie optional dress codes.

The look should be elegant and tailored, but feel free to express a bit of your personality.”

Think shorter-length dresses, easy separates, and maxi dresses for these affairs.

“Lately, I lovecocktail dresseswith a high-volume puff sleeve for a bold and playful look.”

“I like to think of it as polished with panache,” the stylist explains.

“Look for unique silhouettes and festive details.

A shorter hemline is the perfect opportunity to show off a statement shoe.”

“The definition for come as you are is casual but not too casual,” Maguire explains.

“Dont show up in sweats, but rather in a put-together, casual, and cool look.”

A fail-safe formula Maguire suggests is an easy poplin dress with simple sandals.

“Wear whatever makes you feel your best.”

“Wear what makes you feel fabulous,” she says.

“Whimsical accessories are also welcome.”

Holiday Festive

Holiday festive is essentially a level-up from standard festive.

“Holiday festive suggests sequins and sparkle,” Love tells Byrdie.

“To keep the look fun, not formal, I love a high-low combination.

Think cozy knit sweaters with taffeta skirts or a sequined top with wide-leg trousers.

A fun shoe and statement earrings set the festive tone.”

Love says a special occasion date night is an excellent opportunity to incorporate meaningful elements.

Pull out your wedding earrings and work them into your outfit.

For romantic occasions, feel free to show a bit of skin.

For tropical destinations, garden parties, and water-front locations, Love says fabric choice is key.

“Flowy silhouettes in lightweight fabrics are perfect,” the stylist shares.

“Let nature be your inspiration and opt for floral prints and botanical accents.”

Theme Parties

There are usually two camps when it comes to theme parties: Love or loathe.

If you tend toward the latter, kindly sending your regrets could be the best course of action.

But there are ways to still feel like yourself and get in on the fun.

“When in doubt, ask the host for guidance.”