A place where Asian hair isnt a foreign language.

I went through hair puberty in college.

And the grand finale: a hot-towel shave with a straight razor.

Derek Deng and Chinatown

Eventually, I came to terms with the peacock, accepting the new reality of my hair puberty.

Did a white person cut your hair?

she asked when I sat down.

Derek Deng

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Chinese hair, you have to cut it so it doesnt stick out, shuai ge.

There isnt much discourse around Asian hair.

Most people would probably sum it up as unproblematic and pin-straight.

Derek Deng and Chinatown Salon

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And contrary to popular belief, caring for Asian hair requires special care and expertise.

Gradually, I came up with a new haircare routine in hopes of permanently eradicating the peacock.

Inside, I know what to expect.

Derek Deng and Chinatown

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I never have an appointment, but the receptionist always greets me with a shuai ge.

The buttery sweetness of egg tarts from the bakery next door comes in waves.

Its nothing fancy, but its home.